Why I’m Glad I’m Not Married

… or, at least, why I’m glad I’m not married to Dennis Prager. Can we say, “bleeping insensitive clod”? I think so.

For the dim, e.g., righties: At no point does Mr. Prager even consider talking to the Mrs. about why she’s not “in the mood” or wonder if there’s something he’s doing to kill “the mood.” Apparently he thinks being “not in the mood” is just a female thing. Well, in his case, I suspect it would be a female thing. Or a human thing, for that matter.

Is there a Mrs. Prager? Call me, girl. We’ll talk. No woman should have to live with a creep like that. Believe me, if you’re not in the mood a lot, I can certainly see why.

Update: According to a couple of other bloggers, Prager is divorced. Do tell.

Update: More right-wing creepiness. Forcing underage girls as young as 12 to marry older men ain’t no big deal, this guy says. He probably wants to know how to sign up for the cult.

Best of the Web

First, announcements: I’m scheduled to be interviewed (very briefly) on CSPAN, via telephone, at 8:50 a.m. Christmas morning. I figure at least three or four people will be watching CSPAN on Christmas morning, so if a couple of you catch it, that would amount to a significant increase in CSPAN’s viewership.

Posting will be light for the next few days unless something significant happens. So let’s have fun reviewing the best YouTube videos of 2008. This is one of my favorites (I’m a sucker for educational stuff).

If you can think of any videos you saw here or elsewhere you want to nominate, speak up!

Head On Interview

Muffin Betsy has posted raw audio files of an interview with me for Head On Radio Network. The interview took place during the 2007 Yearly Kos convention in Chicago, so a few comments are out of date.

At one point I discuss Barack Obama’s church, by which I believe I meant the United Church of Christ, not Barack Obama’s congregation specifically. The UCC are mostly your old-style mainline Protestants, albeit from the more progressive end of the old-style mainline Protestant pool. In 2007 the entire UCC was under fire from the Right for ordaining gay ministers.

Need a Whopper?

This is too damn funny. Keep clicking the spray bottle when it pops out. The 4th screen is too much. Makes me wonder what sort of “whopper” they’re selling.

[Update: I stopped too soon. Keep clicking after the 4th screen. Hysterical. Eventually it comes back to the beginning.]

Gratitude

Thank you, John Cole.

Update:
John’s on a role roll today.

US Senators are openly colluding with foreign auto companies to drive down the wages of American workers. Something to think about the next time you hear “You’re either with us or against us.”

Amen. I also like this quote:

“I don’t know what Sen. Vitter has against GM or the United Auto Workers or the entire domestic auto industry; whatever it is, whatever he thinks we’ve done, it’s time for him to forgive us, just like Sen. Vitter has asked the citizens of Louisiana to forgive him, ” said Johnson, president of Local 2166. Otherwise, Johnson said of Vitter, it would appear, “He’d rather pay a prostitute than pay auto workers.”

LOL! Shows you what Vitter values, doesn’t it?

Buy This Bag

I had a messenger bag made for my son, and for some reason CafePress sent me two. I am not selling this through CafePress because of copyright issues, so there will be no more of these made. I’m selling the extra one through ebay; click here to bid. Cat not included.

Miss Lucy likes this bag and says you should bid on it. Here’s the graphic detail:

One Random Thing About Me

Somebody tagged me a few days ago; I’m supposed to write ten random things about me. I regret I haven’t had time to think about it. Most random things about me are boring, anyway. However, I do have personal theme songs. Most of them are schmaltzy and depressing, but this one’s not so bad.

Never Use HighBeam Research

A substantial amount of money was just wiped out of one of my bank accounts through bogus charge on a debit card. The charge was made by HighBeam Research. I reached the company on the phone and was told the money was for an annual subscription fee. I said I was unaware I was a subscriber, I’d received no notice I was going to be charged, and I wanted my money back. They said they’d get back to me.

It’s possible (I have no memory of it) that I tried out their free trial subscription at some point, but I don’t remember signing on for the regular subscription, and I can’t imagine I would have, given what they charge. However, make a note not to ever use them at all, even for free. It’s not an honest company.

And if you can send a donation, I could use it.







Safety Tips

Big crowds can be dangerous. When people are densely packed, there’s always a danger that someone will accidentally be injured or even killed. As population on our planet is tending to both increase and concentrate in urban areas, we could use some public education aimed at people explaining why pushing and shoving and stampeding generally are not to be tolerated. I think young, large and male people in particular don’t appreciate how much injury they can do to others.

Anyway, as a safety rule, try not to be in large, dense crowds, and if you find yourself in one, work your way to the edge of it as quickly as possible. Whatever it is you are trying to get to can’t be as important as your life.

Also, if you are ever taken hostage, don’t be in India. I understand the SWAT teams there don’t negotiate or attempt to save hostages. They just shoot everybody.

I also suspect martyr complexes are bad for your health. At the very least, they make you seem way pathetic.

Update: I want to say a little more about the trampling death in the Wal-Mart. There’s been a lot of criticism about the crowds who broke through the glass doors and trampled right over the employee. And I am not saying they are blameless, but … having been in some frighteningly dense crowds a few times myself, I suspect that many of those people were being helplessly carried along in the rush and were terrified for their lives themselves. I suspect the people near the glass doors did not deliberately break the glass, but were pushed through the glass by the force of the surging crowd behind them. It’s entirely possible that much of the force was coming from people in the back of the crowd who couldn’t see what damage they were doing.

This may be hard to imagine if you’ve never been in a crowd so thick that you were helpless to move except with the crowd, but I have. The physics of the energy of the crowd can be very dangerous, and individuals within the crowd may be helpless to stop whatever is going on. It’s like being caught in a tide.

Big, thick crowds can be dangerous even when most of the people in the crowds have no intention to do harm. It’s the nature of big, thick crowds. Companies like Wal-Mart who encourage a big crowd to show up and expect them to move through one or two doors are asking for trouble.

This is the same thing that happened in the Who concert stampede in Cincinnati, in 1979. I wasn’t in that crowd but I was living in Cincinnati at the time and was familiar with the stadium. I agree with this Time magazine article that said the cause of the stampede was the ticketing system at the stadium.

Fewer than 20% of the Cincinnati tickets were for reserved seats. The rest were for so-called festival seating, a sort of first-come-best-seated system that many of the country’s major rock venues have long since given up as unworkable. Says Tony Tavares, director of the New Haven Coliseum where The Who will play this week: “When you sell a general admission ticket, you’re challenging your crowd to get to the best seats in the house first. You’re creating a system of pandemonium.” New York City’s Madison Square Garden, which brings its 20,000-capacity crowds in through four separate towers and a series of separate entrances, has never permitted festival seating. The Garden had 200 security people, 100 ushers and 20 supervisors at their Who concerts in September. “I paid $7,800 for security and staffing fees,” says Curbishley. “Where was that security Monday night?” Riverfront Coliseum concerts by Elton John in 1976 and Led Zeppelin in 1977 had resulted in serious crowd incidents.

As I remember, the Riverfront Coliseum kept the crowd waiting until less than an hour or so before the concert, then had only two doors open to take tickets. The crowd pushed forward to get the best seats, and people in the crowd had the breath squeezed out of them. I remember hearing people say they knew they were stepping on people but they were helpless to stop. They were being pushed along by such force they had no choice but to keep moving with the crowd.